Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts

Thursday, July 21, 2016

Little Bird


Little bird, with us you were placed,

With a wounded wing
And a weary face,
A broken family, 
A broken heart,
In the system before your life did start.
Weighed down by sorrow, grief and strife,
It's all you've known in your short life
You're scared and confused 
But do you know?
I believe in you and I love you so.
Big brown eyes,
Filled with fear,
Seen too much in your few years.
You've paid the price for adult mistakes,
At the mercy of others to decide your fate.
Precious child, do you know?
I believe in you and I love you so.
My heart is conflicted
With both hope and fear.
I turn away so you can't see my tears.
I pray for answers.
What more can I do?
How can I be a strength for you?
Please let me help you,
do you know?
I believe in you
And I love you so.
Hearts can be mended
Through the power of love.
Prayers can be answered
From heaven above.
You can be whatever you choose.
You've broken the cycle
You can't lose.
You're going to survive this
I hope you know,
I believe in you
And I love you so.
From mummy Beth x




Written by Beth Campbell Pugmire

Sunday, July 10, 2016

Why Foster?


If you are familiar with ASA Now you will see #19,000 reasons. That is the number of children in foster care in Arizona. There are so many children in need of a good home. Those who take on this task are to be applauded.

The job, like parenthood is rewarding. Being able to hold that small sleeping child, to comfort these children. The smell of baby powder and fresh laundry. Watching a child take their first step, or their face light up when they learn something new. There is nothing like it. These moments in each parent’s life are heart bursting. They well up such joy inside us, it can’t be contained.

I’m going to be honest with you. Being a foster parent isn’t for the weak. The joy’s and triumphs come with pain and heart break. Watching a child go on visits and come back emotionally hurting is hard. Sending a child back to their parents or onto a new family, is heart wrenching. It’s not easy to connect with a child then watch them go.

Why do we do it?
Because at the end of the day there is a need. Children in foster care need a place to call home. Broken families sometimes just need a little help to get better.

At ASA Now our goal is to help families in any way that we can. One of the ways we are doing that is by making the laws you are affected by understandable. We will be doing a series of blogs focusing on the laws that govern DCS, foster and adoptive families.

DCS is governed by the Arizona Revised Statutes Title 8, Chapter 4. This applies to what their job title is and how they are run. Please be advised this is not legal advice. This is to inform, if you have any further questions please contact an attorney.

The Purpose of DCS is outlined as A.R.S. 8-451 Department; Purpose.[1]
A.   The department of child safety is established
B.    The primary purpose of the department is to protect children. To achieve this purpose, the department shall do and focus equally on the following:
1.     Investigate reports of abuse and neglect.
2.     Assess, promote and support the safety of a child in a safe or stable family or other appropriate placement in response to allegations of abuse or neglect.
3.     Work cooperatively with law enforcement regarding reports that include criminal conduct allegations.
4.     Without compromising child safety, coordinate services to achieve and maintain permanency on behalf of the child, strengthen the family and provide prevention, intervention and treatment services pursuant to this chapter.







[1] Arizona Revised Statutes available online http://www.azleg.state.az.us/ArizonaRevisedStatutes.asp?Title=8

About the Author
Amber Palma is a writer and single mother of two who spends her spare time working full time in Public Safety.